is it possible

is it possible to love a part of someone and despise another..i dont thinkit’s very healthy..but sometimes it is how i feel about my husband.i love him very much and maybe in some weird way..more than anyone..but i also cant stand the way he behaves sometimes and the weird insecure behaviour that he plays out ,of late.
i guess i have to love that part ESPECIALLY..i mean if i am trully on this path and wanting to expand my capacity for love i think this prospect is a perfect opener for this project. so, i must pray to see all of him with loving eyes and feel love in my heart for his many facets of personality